These are JUST my thoughts on "predictions" that I hope may help you in some way.
Do I give people predictions on what is going to occur in their lives? Yes. Am I always correct? No. I am only the messenger (as many of you have heard me say--many, many times). I don't always interpret what is said or shown to me correctly. Sometimes, I have difficulty in hearing what is said. However, an important factor that I try to drill into people is that THEY are in control. But, you know, it doesn't matter how many times I tell someone that they control their future...I don't think they believe me.
There are things/actions that are going to happen in one's life whether they will it or not. I believe these actions are birth and death. Everything else in between has a variable. I believe God made it that way on purpose. I believe God has a wonderful sense of humor and we don't get it.
I won't get all religious on you, but I believe "free will" is one of God's greatest gifts---and one of the biggest curses. Everyone is always saying "this is predestined" or "he/she is meant for me." I'd like to say that without a doubt, one person will come to another, or without a doubt, 100%, you will get this job, or that job. The problem with that is--variables.
What I do is predict what is going to happen--with VARIABLES--just the same as every psychic does. Anyone who tells you they can predict 100%, including the variables, isn't being completely honest. That's why it's so difficult to predict the future. Because with the information given to you during a reading, YOU often change the course of your life through trying to "speed up" or "tweak" whatever it is that's going to occur.
For instance: Suppose I tell Rhia that Herbert is going to call her in "7", possibly days or the 7th, and she'll hear Herbert beating around the bush about it, but he LIKES Rhia and wants to ask her to get together in that time. Well, with the information given, Rhia gets excited and then impatient and decides to speed things along by calling Herbert herself (she thinks, "what can it hurt? let's get this show on the road!!").
So Rhia calls Herbert. Rhia is sitting there on the phone with Herbert, expecting him to ask her out (because I've TOLD her he's going to), and she's not really saying to much. Herbert, although he likes talking to Rhia, is a bit nervous and wasn't quite ready to talk to Rhia, NOR was he prepared to ask her out. He also doesn't know why she called or why she's acting different than she normally does. SO! Rhia is sitting there on the phone and her mind is screaming, "ask me, ask me, ASK ME!" and, yes, she's getting more impatient....
Well, she decides to throw caution to the wind and ask HERBERT out (her logic is that he was going to ask her anyway....). Well, Herbert gets nervous and makes an excuse as to why he can't (even though he really wants to--he feels funny & pressured, so he makes an excuse about being busy and says no).
So, feelings are hurt now, so Rhia feels embarrassed and hurries up and gets off the phone. Herbert, embarrassed because he just turned someone he likes down, feels bad as he gets off the phone. He's now uncomfortable.
Rhia is upset, cursing ME out for being wrong in my prediction and she's feeling rejected. She decides to say "screw u" to Herbert next time he calls (IF he calls) because he rejected her--in her mind. Herbert, who was GOING to call her in a few days and ask her out, NOW doesn't know how to speak to Rhia and the time gets dragged out from 7 days to ump-teen weeks--if then.
Rhia and Herbert don't end up going out. (not a real story)
So....was the original prediction I gave Rhia wrong?? We'll never know now, will we....? Rhia would definitely say i was wrong--and probably be quite pissy toward me for embarrassing her and upsetting her....but was I wrong or did she take the info given and change the outcome?
So, many of you are probably sitting there saying, "well, if they're meant to be together, they'll come back together!" Okay, but, choices you make in the MEANtime may make that impossible. You may get engaged, married, move, become a hermit, etc. Which is why so many people have "that one person" that sticks in their head from high school, or college, or that job years ago. It's not that you were not "meant" to be with that person--but you made CHOICES that changed the outcome. A lot of times, years later, we get a chance to revisit that person who stuck in our heads, but the circumstances are so different, we have difficulty reconciling why they came back NOW.--but that's another topic.
NOW you argue: "but if you're psychic--you can SEE that I was going to make a different choice!" No, not true...what I SEE (or hear, or feel), is the way the energy moves AT THAT TIME....but with this "newfound knowledge" that I have given you--you have the ability to CHANGE the outcome.
Remember Rhia?--had she not spoken to me, she would never have known that Herbert was going to ask her out--and for that time frame of "7," she would have been unaware until the exact time he asked her out. She just would have continued to like him, being herself, and hoping he'd ask her out until he finally did. Then they would have gone out together, and the rest would have been.......history!
But since she spoke to me--she anticipated and got impatient, tried to "speed things along" and CHANGED the outcome....see how that works?
But since she spoke to me--she anticipated and got impatient, tried to "speed things along" and CHANGED the outcome....see how that works?
SO! I ask you, is it a good thing to be "forewarned" of the future? I would like to think so, but at times, I question it. I believe my gift was given for a purpose, but HOW the HECK do I get people to see that what they do, or DON'T do, has an affect on the outcome?
I try and tell people that their actions--COMBINED with the energy they emit--is what designs their future.
You can call me and ask me if you're going to "meet anyone soon"--and I can tell you yes (and give details), BUT, if you decide to stay inside the house for the next month--it ain't happenin'.
You can call me and ask me if you're going to get a raise or promotion and i can tell you yes (and give details/time)--and you go BACK into work with the 'im the sh*^ attitude" and "im about to get a raise" attitude--and be nasty to people....instead of your normal, polite, fun, hardworking self....and guess what? Yup, you guessed it--you don't get the raise/promotion because whoever is in charge has "now been seeing/hearing" some things that they don't like and didn't know before about you.
Having information is only good if it can be turned to your advantage. I can warn people of accidents, I can warn people that someone is not to be trusted/to be trusted, I can warn people that someone is cheating on them, I can warn people that someone is NOT cheating on them, I can tell you about a raise, a trip, a job change, etc, etc, etc.....but HOW does it help you to know these things?
Here's how it helps: if it's something you WANT to occur in your life, cool---sit back, be busy with other things (mentally and physically) and let it come to pass. If it's something you DON"T want to occur--you NOW have the tool of knowledge at your disposal to change the outcome. It also helps you in that you can deal with a situation or person better. You now have CHOICES that you didn't know you had before. Isn't that nice? yes....um....no....um....yes? no?
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Also, be aware of some things:
#1: problems with predictions/your future: REALLY start to come in when you have what i call "poison apples" around you. These are people who would be bringing in negative baggage (when you have enough of your own baggage to deal with, thank you!). These are advisors who would mislead you, these are friends who are well-intentioned, these are people who CALL themselves friends but really aren't, these are family members who think they know better than you do.....the list is really endless.
Also, be aware of some things:
#1: problems with predictions/your future: REALLY start to come in when you have what i call "poison apples" around you. These are people who would be bringing in negative baggage (when you have enough of your own baggage to deal with, thank you!). These are advisors who would mislead you, these are friends who are well-intentioned, these are people who CALL themselves friends but really aren't, these are family members who think they know better than you do.....the list is really endless.
These poison apples affect the situation when you open the door and invite them in by "telling them your business." Any book in the world that you read on "getting what you want" involves NOT TELLING OTHER PEOPLE. And what do you do? tell them anyways....lol. What you're doing here, is bringing THEIR energy into the situation and, whatever action they may try to do to "help" your situation for you (whether they tell you about it or not).
#2: God DOES have a sense of humor and Murphy's Law is real! I firmly believe Murphy is God in disguise. Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it. Be careful what you try to "manipulate" to your advantage, because the opposite might (and most likely WILL) occur. God also doesn't make bargains and you can't tell Him, "ok, if you JUST give me THIS, I will do THAT!".....uh-uh. lol......
#3: Hypothetical predictions, normally aren't that accurate. What is a "hypothetical prediction?" Glad you asked! It's when I tell you, "Angels say you aren't walking away from him." Then you ask, "but what IF I do?" .......any answer I, or another advisor gives you, would end up being a "hypothetical prediction"....because the REALITY at that time is that you're not going to walk away from him.
*** NOTE: THIS is why I tell people, "Angels say you're not going to walk away from him, but if you CONSCIOUSLY CHOOSE to change that path, change it. THEN, a few weeks from now, call me or another advisor you trust and see if the energy has changed, or if you've managed to change the prediction! (THAT, my friends, is how to use a prediction to your advantage!!!)
#4: The smallest action, can completely change a prediction! If you are warned that contacting someone could have an adverse effect on the situation, and then you arrange for someone else to contact them for you, or to "accidentally" dial their number, or to "accidentally" be in the same place as them.........this IS an action!!! By the way, doing nothing is also an action.........if you consciously CHOSE to do "nothing." Ex: not taking a call you normally would have taken--that's an action. Ignoring someone--that's an action.
#5: Predictions are ONLY meant to be a "guide" for your life. Predictions are not the "owner's manual" of life where, if you don't listen, you mess up your entire future. Predictions are also not meant to take the place of common sense or your own free will. Predictions are ALSO not meant to run your life for you--that's your job. Consider readings, and predictions, to be as follows: your life is one big road trip across the nation. You want to make sure you're going the right direction to get from California to New York, so every once in a while, you stop to check "the map" (ie: get a reading/predictions). It's okay, if you decide to take a different route, take a pit stop, or turn around and head back home until you decide if you even want to go all the way to New York! Just use your road map as it was intended--as a guide to get where you want to go--not as an absolute or a crutch.
Ok, hope this helped you on getting readings, regardless of whether you get the reading from me or another advisor, I want you to get what helps YOU live a better life! :)
Peace to you and yours,
Solara
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